Dating is a jungle, and the search for Mr. Right can be both exhilarating and exhausting.
For many people, it is not uncommon to have no idea if a man is interested in you even after a few dates.
Men try to protect themselves just as you do in those early dating days, often causing them to appear aloof regardless of their feelings. Conversely, sometimes men are just being nice, and what you are reading as interest may be nothing more than kindness.
There are a few sign that can tip the scale in your favor as you attempt to gauge a man’s interest.
1. Maintaining Eyes Contact
Does he hold your gaze when the two of you are talking? This speaks volumes about his level of interest, because maintaining eye contact isn’t always the most comfortable thing to do. Even more telling is the way he looks at you while conversing. Does that eye contact also come with a smile? Or the quick shifting away of his gaze, as though he suddenly grew nervous? These are signs of his interest in you.
Sometimes, you may even thought that it is his flirting technique with an awkward gaze but he might be too shy to make his interest known by body gesture or to approach you in a natural way. Hence, do not be misunderstood by this way of contact, but try to maintain your eyes contact too if you are interested with him.
2. Body Language
There are several body language indicators you can look out for when gauging a man’s interest. Around the world, if a man is interested with you, he will unconsciously moves to get closer to you, this is also a good sign
For example: if the two of you are shopping or walking together and his arm keeps brushing up against yours, or like shifting himself closer to you in any seating arrangement, or putting his arm around the back of your chair, it’s a sign that he’s interested.. This can be a subtle, mostly subconscious movement, or it can be much less subtle. You can use a bit of moving closer to give a hint that you are interested with him. Please don’t move closer if you are not interested with him, otherwise he might thought you interested with him too.
He might be quiet throughout the dating or is an introvert personality, but you’ll notice that every time you turn around, it seems he’s beside or behind you, this means that he wants to spend time and stay longer with you during the date. Sometimes, quiet or introvert guys do not know how to express their words, feeling or showing proper contacts with the interested girl. To them, this is the best way to display their sincere interests towards you. *Only for Quiet and Introverts
Body language is an important gauge that helps you to identify 80% of the guy’s interests or uninterested towards you.
3. Nervous Attention
When a guy’s get into you, he’s going to be a bit nervous around you. This is because he wants to make a good impression infront of you, so he’s going to try cracking some nonsense joke to cease the awkwardness and make you laugh in conversation, sweaty palms, or fidgeting when you are coming closer or an accident sudden touch – like elbow to elbow. Anyone, when is nervous or tense up, they will try to compress it. Unfortunately, some is obvious but some don’t. Hence, you will need to observe him during the date.
Do your best to make him comfortable. Tell him about that time you spilled a drink all over yourself at your work party, or something to make you seem human and not inhumanly awesome. Have a good “natural” laugh and help him to seize the nervous.
4. Differ Treating
When He is interested in you, he might start behaving differently towards you.
You will see him specially thoughtful, concern and understanding. E.g. What do you like to have for dinner? Seafood? Pizza? or…. he will try to compromise and to be as thoughtful on the food you fancy and don’t. As much as possible to give u a good impression that he is prioritizing you rather than himself .
He may also share with you his inner feeling or secret rather than sharing to his group of friends. A guy will only share with someone that he felt at his comforts. Hence, it is a sign that his heart is towards you.